You Don't Have to Keep Living This Double Life!
Real freedom from porn, sexual addiction and shame - in the company of men who get it.
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You've tried to stop. Maybe hundreds of times. It never sticks.
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The shame is exhausting - and so is the hiding.
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Every day feels like a performance. You play the part. You're good at it. But behind closed doors, you're someone else - and you're tired of the act.
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You don't just want to manage it. You want to be done with it.
You weren’t made to just manage behavior.
You were created for deep transformation — heart, mind, and spirit.
This is your moment. This is your ground zero.
Hi, I’m Michael Cary, founder of Men in the Battle. I started MIB because I needed it. My story is probably a lot like yours. I looked like I had my act together on the outside, I had a successful career, attended church regularly and led a Bible study at work. But behind the scenes, I was caught in a cycle of unwanted sexual behavior, including frequent pornography use and soliciting prostitutes.
I felt broken, ashamed, and completely alone.
Despite years of trying to stop through various methods, nothing worked. Each failed attempt only deepened my shame and depression. I began to question whether God was even real. After 27 years of mishandling my sexuality in a variety of ways, I was in a very dark place. At my lowest point, I even considered ending my life.
In 2009, God showed me the way out and I finally started living in FREEDOM! Since then, I've helped hundreds of men walk in the same path.
Join Men in the Battle
That's why I built this:
so no man has to find his way out alone.
Men in the Battle is a guided path - not a lecture, not a program, not another thing to white-knuckle through.
It's a brotherhood of men doing the real work: honest, Christ-centered, and built for lasting transformation - not just sobriety.
Here's what men are saying about MIB:
“Porn use and masturbation from a young age led to a pattern of cheating that carried into my marriage. 'Sin management' never worked. I was trapped in lies, insecurity, depression, suicidal thoughts, and self-hatred. I tried to stop many times, but nothing seemed to stick. Since joining Men in the Battle, I’ve seen a real shift in my heart — and my wife sees it too. Jesus has been faithful, even when I wasn’t. I'm experiencing more joy, peace, and freedom than ever before. For the first time, I finally feel like I’m becoming my true self.”
And it's not just the men who notice....
"When I asked my husband to join Men in the Battle, I was praying for restoration and redemption. What he found was exactly what he needed:. He found a community and curriculum that helped him heal at the core, not just manage the destructive sexual behaviors that were tearing him apart and damaging our marriage. He learned how to take off the masks he wore to protect himself and finally show up with transparency and authenticity. He found true recovery — not just sobriety.The spiritual and emotional growth in his life has been profound. Today, we share a level of communication, honesty, and connection in our marriage that once felt impossible. Joining Men in the Battle was one of the best decisions he ever made — for himself and for us.”
This is NOT about managing behavior—it’s about REAL transformation. Become the man who no longer acts out in unwanted sexual behavior—period.
Ready to get on the Path to Freedom?
Your Men in the Battle Membership Includes:
✅ Path to Freedom Curriculum
Our Men in the Battle curriculum is designed to help you break free from problematic sexual behavior and step into lasting transformation.
This is not behavior management, it's about deep, internal change in the company of men.
✅ Weekly MIB Group
Join a weekly 90-minute online group led by certified, trained facilitators who’ve walked the path to freedom and are committed to helping you reach yours. (Limited in-person spots may be available in Central Indiana.)
✅ Extensive Resource Library
Go deeper with a growing library of expert teaching and real-world guidance.
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Recorded Q&A sessions and live teachings
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Michael's seminar on Gaslighting.
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Built to support you beyond the weekly lessons
✅ Authentic Brotherhood
Stay connected through our exclusive, private Men in the Battle online community — a safe space for real connection and honest conversations between meetings. Access everything through our mobile app — no email, no texting, no browser required.
The value of a Men in the Battle membership:
✅ Private Online Brotherhood $100/mo
No shame, no fluff—just real connection with men walking the same road. What you get: 24/7 access to support, wisdom, and brotherhood
✅ Weekly Live Discipleship Groups $200/mo
Led by trained facilitators and recovery mentors
What you get: Consistent connection, accountability, and encouragement
✅ Weekly Community Challenges +
Spiritual Formation Tools $75/mo
Designed to build momentum and deepen your walk with Christ. What you get: Strategic action steps, devotional prompts, and journaling tools
✅ Weekly Lessons & On-Demand
Resource Library $150/mo
Video teachings, worksheets, and tools on topics like triggers, relapse prevention, and rebuilding trust
What you get: Immediate access to real-life solutions
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🔥 Total Value: $525/month
Your Investment: Only $147/month!
For Context: One hour with a private coach runs $150 - $200. One therapy session costs the same or more. MIB gives you weekly group support, a full curriculum, a 40+ hour resource library, and a brotherhood - for less than one session per month.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a Christian program? Yes. Men in the Battle is Christ-centered at its core. Everything — the curriculum, the community, the conversations — is rooted in faith and spiritual formation. That said, we meet men where they are. You don't need to have it all together spiritually to belong here.
Is this confidential? Will anyone know I joined? What happens in the group stays in the group. Every man in MIB agrees to strict confidentiality. Your name, your story, and everything you share is protected. Nobody outside the group will know you're here unless you tell them.
How is this different from therapy or a 12-step program? Therapy is one-on-one and clinical. 12-step is peer-led and focused primarily on sobriety. MIB is something different — a guided discipleship journey with trained facilitators, a structured curriculum, and a brotherhood of men doing the real work together. We're not trying to replace therapy. We complement it. But a lot of our men have found more lasting change here than anywhere else they've tried.
What if I miss a week? Life happens. Missing a week doesn't disqualify you. The community and resource library are available anytime, and your group will still be there when you're back.
I've tried other programs and failed. Why would this be different? Because most programs try to fix behavior. MIB goes after the root — the shame, the wounds, the identity distortions that drive the behavior in the first place. You haven't failed because something is wrong with you. You've failed because you've been using the wrong tools.
How long does it take to complete the curriculum? MIB has 3 years of curriculum — more than enough to go as deep as transformation actually requires. Most programs give you 8 weeks and call it done. We built this for the long haul because real change takes time.
What happens after I finish the curriculum? Freedom isn't a finish line — it's a way of life. Many men stay in MIB long after completing the curriculum because the brotherhood and accountability are that valuable. You're welcome to stay as long as it's serving you.
Am I too far gone for this to work? No. Michael thought the same thing. So did most of the men in this group. The ones who've found freedom aren't the ones who had it easiest — they're the ones who finally stopped trying to figure it out alone.
Questions? Please email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help!
Take a sneak peek inside the Men in the Battle website and curriculum:
Join Men in the Battle and get on the Path to the Freedom you've always wanted!
Don't waste another minute trying to find Freedom alone!
(Membership is $147 month to month, cancel anytime)
Questions? Please email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help!
All payments are non-refundable. This program cannot substitute for private therapy or mental health care with a licensed professional.
Our groups are not recommended for individuals who are actively suicidal, abusing drugs or alcohol, or those diagnosed with personality disorders (NPD, BPD, etc).