You Don't Have to Keep Living This Double Life!
12 Weeks to Start. A Lifetime of Freedom Ahead.
In the company of men who get it.
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You've tried to stop. Maybe hundreds of times. It never sticks.
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The shame is exhausting - and so is the hiding.
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Every day feels like a performance. You play the part. You're good at it. But behind closed doors, you're someone else - and you're tired of the act.
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You don't just want to manage it. You want to be done with it.
You weren’t made to just manage behavior.
You were created for deep transformation — heart, mind, and spirit.
This is your moment. This is your ground zero.
Hi, I’m Michael Cary, founder of Men in the Battle. I started MIB because I needed it. My story is probably a lot like yours. I looked like I had my act together on the outside, I had a successful career, attended church regularly and led a Bible study at work. But behind the scenes, I was caught in a cycle of unwanted sexual behavior, including frequent pornography use and soliciting prostitutes.
I felt broken, ashamed, and completely alone.
Despite years of trying to stop through various methods, nothing worked. Each failed attempt only deepened my shame and depression. I began to question whether God was even real. After 27 years of mishandling my sexuality in a variety of ways, I was in a very dark place. At my lowest point, I even considered ending my life.
In 2009, God showed me the way out and I finally started living in FREEDOM! Since then, I've helped hundreds of men walk in the same path.
The Experts Who Send Their Own Clients Here.
You don't have to take our word for it.
"I highly recommend Living Truth for all who are serious about finding a new life."
Dr. Jacob Porter, LPC, CSAT
"I know Michael and Kristin. You're in good hands"
Leslie Vernick, Counselor & Best-Selling Author
Join Intro to Men in the Battle
That's why I built this:
so no man has to find his way out alone.
Intro to Men in the Battle is where the journey begins - not a surface-level orientation, but deep, transformational work from day one.
12 lessons. 12 weeks. Real Change.
This isn't a primer. It's not a warm-up. It's the beginning of the most important work you'll ever do - in the company of men who are doing it right alongside you.
Here's what men are saying about MIB:
“Porn use and masturbation from a young age led to a pattern of cheating that carried into my marriage. 'Sin management' never worked. I was trapped in lies, insecurity, depression, suicidal thoughts, and self-hatred. I tried to stop many times, but nothing seemed to stick. Since joining Men in the Battle, I’ve seen a real shift in my heart — and my wife sees it too. Jesus has been faithful, even when I wasn’t. I'm experiencing more joy, peace, and freedom than ever before. For the first time, I finally feel like I’m becoming my true self.”
And it's not just the men who notice....
"When I asked my husband to join Men in the Battle, I was praying for restoration and redemption. What he found was exactly what he needed:. He found a community and curriculum that helped him heal at the core, not just manage the destructive sexual behaviors that were tearing him apart and damaging our marriage. He learned how to take off the masks he wore to protect himself and finally show up with transparency and authenticity. He found true recovery — not just sobriety.The spiritual and emotional growth in his life has been profound. Today, we share a level of communication, honesty, and connection in our marriage that once felt impossible. Joining Men in the Battle was one of the best decisions he ever made — for himself and for us.”
This is NOT about managing behavior—it’s about REAL transformation. Become the man who no longer acts out in unwanted sexual behavior—period.
Ready to get on the Path to Freedom?
Your Men in the Battle Membership Includes:
✅ Intro to Freedom Curriculum
12 focused lessons designed to go straight to the root - not the behavior, but what's driving it. This is deep, transformational work built for any man ready to stop pretending and start changing. Appropriate for men at any stage of the journey.
✅ Bi-Weekly MIB Group
Every two weeks, you'll meet online for 90-minutes with a Certified Recovery Coach and a group of men walking the same road. Honest, structured, and built for real progress - not just showing up.
✅ Extensive Resource Library
Go deeper with a growing library of expert teaching and real-world guidance.
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Recorded Q&A sessions and live teachings
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Michael's seminar on Gaslighting.
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Built to support you beyond the weekly lessons
✅ Authentic Brotherhood
Stay connected through our exclusive, private Men in the Battle online community — a safe space for real connection and honest conversations between meetings. Access everything through our mobile app — no email, no texting, no browser required.
Intro to MIB group meetings are held every other Thursday at 7:30pm ET for 90 minutes, starting May 28.
New cohorts launch on a limited schedule.
Once this group fills, enrollment closes until the next opening.
Don't let another cycle pass you by.
Still undecided? Take a moment to watch this powerful overview video and see what it’s really like to be part of this group:
The value of a Intro to Men in the Battle membership:
✅ Private Online Brotherhood $100/mo
No shame, no fluff—just real connection with men walking the same road. What you get: 24/7 access to support, wisdom, and brotherhood
✅ Bi-Weekly Live Discipleship Groups $200/mo
Led by Certified Recovery Coaches. What you get: Consistent connection, accountability, and encouragement
✅ Weekly Community Challenges +
Spiritual Formation Tools $75/mo
Designed to build momentum and deepen your walk with Christ. What you get: Strategic action steps, devotional prompts, and journaling tools
✅ Weekly Lessons & On-Demand
Resource Library $150/mo
Video teachings, worksheets, and tools on topics like triggers, relapse prevention, and rebuilding trust
What you get: Immediate access to real-life solutions
$100
🔥 Total Value: $525/month
Your Investment: Only $147/month!
For Context: One hour with a private coach runs $150 - $200. One therapy session costs the same or more. Intro to MIB gives you bi-weekly group support, a full curriculum, a 40+ hour resource library, and a brotherhood - for less than one session per month.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a Christian program? Yes. Men in the Battle is Christ-centered at its core. Everything — the curriculum, the community, the conversations — is rooted in faith and spiritual formation. That said, we meet men where they are. You don't need to have it all together spiritually to belong here.
Is this confidential? Will anyone know I joined? What happens in the group stays in the group. Every man in MIB agrees to strict confidentiality. Your name, your story, and everything you share is protected. Nobody outside the group will know you're here unless you tell them.
How is this different from therapy or a 12-step program? Therapy is one-on-one and clinical. 12-step is peer-led and focused primarily on sobriety. MIB is something different — a guided discipleship journey with trained facilitators, a structured curriculum, and a brotherhood of men doing the real work together. We're not trying to replace therapy. We complement it. But a lot of our men have found more lasting change here than anywhere else they've tried.
What if I miss a week? Life happens. Missing a week doesn't disqualify you. The community and resource library are available anytime, and your group will still be there when you're back.
I've tried other programs and failed. Why would this be different? Because most programs try to fix behavior. Intro to MIB goes after the root — the shame, the wounds, the identity distortions that drive the behavior in the first place. You haven't failed because something is wrong with you. You've failed because willpower was never designed to fix this.
How long is the curriculum? Intro to MIB is 12 lessons over 12 weeks - but let's be honest: you won't be done at week 12. This is the beginning of transformation, not the end of it. Twelve weeks is enough time to go deep. It's not enough to undo years of patterns. What it is enough time to do is start becoming the man you were created to be.
What happens after the 12 weeks? Your membership continues exactly as-is - same price, same community, same brotherhood. Most men choose to continue in our weekly Path to Freedom group, which goes even deeper. The transition is seamless. There's no pressure and nothing extra to figure out - just a deeper road ahead if you want it.
Am I too far gone for this to work? No. Michael thought the same thing. So did most of the men in this group. The ones who've found freedom aren't the ones who had it easiest — they're the ones who finally stopped trying to figure it out alone.
Questions? Please email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help!
Take a sneak peek inside the Men in the Battle website and curriculum:
Take the first step. Join Intro to Men in the Battle and start your Path to Freedom today.
Don't waste another week trying to figure this out alone.
(Membership is $147 month to month, cancel anytime)
Questions? Please email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org and we'd be happy to help!
All payments are non-refundable. This program cannot substitute for private therapy or mental health care with a licensed professional.
Our groups are not recommended for individuals who are actively suicidal, abusing drugs or alcohol, or those diagnosed with personality disorders (NPD, BPD, etc).